Monday, March 7, 2022

Dr. Mona Delahooke speaks on her book Brain-Body Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids

On March 3, the Glenbard Parent Series hosted noted clinical psychologist Dr. Mona Delahooke in a program based on her book, Brain-Body Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids.

Brain-Body Parenting empowers parents with tools to help their children develop self-regulation skills while also encouraging parental self-care, which is crucial for parents to have the capacity to provide the essential “co-regulation” children need. When parents shift from trying to secure compliance to supporting connection and balance in the body and mind, they unlock a deeper understanding of their child, encouraging calmer behavior, more harmonious family dynamics, and increased resilience.

Delahooke is a licensed clinical psychologist with more than 30 years of experience caring for children and their families. Her just released book is Brain-Body Parenting: How to Stop Managing Behavior and Start Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids. She is a senior faculty member of the Profectum Foundation, an organization dedicated to supporting families of neurodiverse children, adolescents, and adults. She is a trainer for the Los Angeles County Department of Mental Health and is a member of the American Psychological Association and holds the highest level of endorsement in the field of infant and toddler mental health in California, as a Reflective Practice Mentor (RPM).

Rebecca Sulaver ,Glenbard Assistant Director of Teaching and Learning, hosted the event and shared the following takeaway:

"Mona Delahooke wants caregivers to de-emphasize behavior management and shift the lens from consequences/punishment of challenging  behaviors, to an understanding that the behavior IS the message.  Look at like what lies beneath -the tip of the iceberg. What is happening in the body, brain and the central nervous system ? Does the child feel safe? Kids do well if they can. Observe, Interpret, then take action to meet their needs. Create a toolbox (breathing techniques, exercise, music, journaling, self-talk) to calm. Understand some stress is necessary to grow. What works: elevate the relationship with your child-make it a top priority! Find simple moments to connect, and play, so all can restore".

A recording of the Q and A from the event is HERE


RESOURCES

Website for Dr. Mona Delahooke HERE 

Dr. Mona Delahooke Podcasts HERE

Bright and Quirky Interview with Dr. Mona Delahooke and Dr. Stephen Porges VIDEO HERE

Bright and Quirky Interview How to Approach Kids’ Challenging Behaviors, with Dr. Mona Delahooke VIDEO HERE

What Does it mean to Look Beyond Behaviors? (Feb 3, 2021) VIDEO HERE

The Most Important Question To Ask About Children’s Behavioral Challenges VIDEO HERE

Take 5: Preview of Dr. Mona Delahooke’s event VIDEO HERE